原来老一辈带孩子实行的是“淘汰制”?网友:不忍直视!
你们发现没有以前老一辈带孩子是真的好轻松,现在带孩子就像伺候“祖宗”!那么为什么说老一辈带孩子那么轻松呢?原来他们实行的是“淘汰制”!
可别不信,让我们一起来看看网友分享就明白了!
为啥啊?女儿都没有了?
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基因问题吧?我外婆生了8个都活了!
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是的,深有感触[泪奔][泪奔]
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物竞天择,适者生存?
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也许不是不在乎,更多的是很无奈吧!
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原来我妈妈跟你妈妈是同款啊![笑哭]
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不得不说青霉素的发现,对人类真的贡献大。
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是缺乏劳动力?还是为了分担家庭压力?
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我的天呐,她家怎么想的啊?[流泪][流泪]
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老一辈的还会给孩子绑腿[泪奔]
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难怪现在的大妈大爷都身体倍棒[呲牙][呲牙]
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我最讨厌那些喝酒的,那么小的婴儿还用筷子蘸酒喂他们!超级讨厌~
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是的,我老公奶奶就经常给我讲当年她是怎么带我老公的[捂脸][捂脸]
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那时候可能是因为肠胀气他们不懂,怎么可能有小孩饿了不吃奶啊![流泪][流泪]
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天呐,太可怕了,这用手生抠啊!真是命大![泪奔]
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那兽医是你的贵人啊!
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我奶奶怀了7个,生了5个[泪奔][泪奔]
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写到最后
其实在我们看来老一辈带孩子在某些方面可能看起来轻松,但实际上并非完全如此。
在过去,物质条件相对匮乏,对孩子的养育可能在物质方面的投入相对较少。而且当时的社会环境和家庭结构也有所不同,大家庭较多,邻里之间相互照应,孩子的活动范围相对自由,家长对孩子的安全担忧可能相对较少。
而且,过去的劳动强度大,在忙碌的工作之余还要照顾孩子,也承受着很大的压力。
老一辈在带孩子时,可能没有现在我们家长对孩子未来发展的那种高期望和精细规划,这在一定程度上减少了精神上的负担,
总的来说,老一辈带孩子有他们特定的时代背景和条件,所以,我们不能简单地认为他们带孩子就很轻松。
对此你们有什么不一样的观点和看法吗?一起来聊一聊吧! 🌸 做一个快乐的人,传递快乐给别人。 🌸—— 来自:荷包蛋部落(HBD0.CN)已读乱回
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