为什么现在成年人没有大人的感觉？网友：只是人长大了脑子没长大
你们有没有发现一个奇怪的现象？现在身边好多成年人，明明生理年龄已经成熟，但无论从穿着打扮、为人处事，就是没有那种“大人”的感觉。就好像我们只是人长大了，脑子还在原地踏步，依旧幼稚得像个孩子呢？之前有看到一个说法是，现在社会权力没转给年轻人，话语权在中年人手里，年轻人对社会没有参与感？
那么到底是为什么呢？今天让我们一起来探讨一下其中的原因吧！
一句话演示了人的成长过程！
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嗯…可能我还不如小学生，我都30了。
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哈哈，自己还不能替自己做主了？[捂脸]
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这何尝不是对你负责的一种体现啊[捂脸][捂脸]
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刚上班那年，我买了那个大白兔包包哄自己[尬笑][尬笑]
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我弟00后，每天都要买一袋子零食[尬笑]
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找工作的加分项？父母在身边？
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在父母的眼里我们永远都是没长大的孩子！
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哈哈，想问问你多大了？[捂脸]
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确实，这么说也挺正常的啊！没毛病[泪奔]
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根本不就拿你当“大人”[捂脸]
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我的天，你得多年轻[尬笑]
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肩扛责任才能成长！
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怎么感觉他们才是那个28的[捂脸]
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你难道不觉得这也是一种负责任的表现啊？
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我弟24了，感觉他身边都没有同龄人结婚[融化]
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我觉得我就是，小事没想法，大事没主断！
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这简直太形象了。
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24岁不让恋爱，25催你结婚[呲牙]
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没事业，但是你还有幸福的家庭，让人羡慕啊！[星星眼]
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我能说我30了还看猫和老鼠吗？[捂脸][捂脸]
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随着社会竞争压力增大，工作和生活的不确定性增加，使得一些成年人在面对各种问题时，表现出迷茫和不知所措，缺乏“大人”应有的从容和自信。
但不管怎么说，我们不能总是这样“脑子没长大”。我们得努力摆脱这种“巨婴”状态，真正成为有担当、有理智的大人呀！不然，这一路磕磕绊绊，最后吃苦的还是我们自己。
http://dingyue.ws.126.net/2024/1118/0394f450g00sn4s9b002fd0008c008cg.gif 幸福就是：能在家里穿着睡衣，一天什么都不做👕。—— 来自：荷包蛋部落（HBD0.CN）已读乱回
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