为什么老一辈说钱财不能外露?网友:露多了就会越来越少?
问大家一个问题,你有多少存款,你觉得有必要隐瞒别人吗?在我大学还没毕业的时候爷爷就说,你以后工作了,工资多少,对任何人都不要透露,包括我,你爸爸妈妈不说也没有问题,谁问你就说比你拿到的低一些,这个是社会上的规则,你现在还不懂,以后你就懂了!
我们在二十岁有钱的时候恨不得告诉全世界,三十岁的时候会告诉亲戚朋友家里人,四十岁可能会告诉老婆儿子,五十岁可能憋死了谁都不说。
网友说: 20岁就应该要有50岁的觉悟!
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我结婚爸爸妈妈给了2万块钱,让我存着留着万一过的不好当作以后回家的路费!我对谁都没说,一直留着。
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哈哈哈,当面数钱的画面感一下就有了!
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你爸真的是人间清醒啊!
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天呐,这是问你借多少啊?还每月还5000!
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看到你这个让我想起了我妹妹的对象家,差不多的情况,她也是给自己留了一条后路,自己的存款跟她对象都没提过!
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你要是自己没法说,那就只能自己受着!
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不是吧,哪个外婆会提出这么无理的要求?
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看着真的气人,你们当时怎么想的啊?
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这样的公公咋想的?手心手背都是肉啊!
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也许他是真遇上事了!
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这个客户确实是真的聪明。
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还好,断了联系了!
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天知地知,其他的都不要说!
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换我立马花掉这10万,才不去给他们还账了!
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真的很讨厌这样的姐姐,没有边界感。
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这小姨太坑了吧!
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写到最后
如果是你有存款你会选择说出来还是瞒着呢?
老一辈说到钱财不能外露,是怕避免被别人惦记,也怕引发身边人的嫉妒心理,进而影响人际关系。当然还有就是减少不必要的麻烦,通常就是借钱,借与不借都会左右为难!
所以说老一辈“钱财不能外露”这种观念,反映了老一辈人对于保护自己和家庭安全、维护好人际关系的智慧和一些经验。
对此你们有什么不一样的观点吗?大家可以一起来讨论一下呀!我们评论区见哦! 咦,瞧一瞧,路过此地,留个言
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